Women....we are unique from men in both minds and physics.
Of all the topics that differentiate a typical woman and man...the ever famous is "sex".
There are conflicting opinions when it comes to many other topics, but when it comes to women and sex, or men and sex...it has been surpirisngly consistent. Both men and women tends to agree in a round table discussion.
Women (generally) equates sex to love.
Men (generally too) doesnt't equate sex to love.
So we aren't gonna even go there, as this is a mutual understanding already.
But what frustrates me to see, is that why women can't moved on as easily as men? You know men doesn't equates sex with love, and when you get mixed signals that there is no love, then move on. Why torment yourself over the thoughts of why he's behaving in such manner, why he led you on, what's lacking in you and why aren't you good enough? We all know by now, it doesn't has to be love, so stop beating yourself. Problem is not with you...nor with the men. They are just that way. Call them bastards all you want, but that doesn't change the fact. They can be intimate one day and cold another day.
It is rare but I believe still in existence, men who accounts for their act. Put the geeky and the nerdy aside, if you do find one, don't go harping one someone whom you can't get i.e. the type as mentioned above.
I've been told that men has evolved somewhat into a someone who's bad in direction, lack of sense of responsibility, bad time management and planning...because of some women's controlling and domineering nature. Whether that is meant as a joke, I'm not certain because it comes from my joker boyfriend when we were having some petty talks.
But having said that, my point is women can evolved too. After being hurt and let down so many times, don't call a woman a bitch if she can now stop equating sex to love, and just enjoy the moments. Hence more and more women cheats and wives having affair. Why are men so surprised of this "evolution"? It's just a matter of mind conditioning and one too many lessons learnt.
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